Feeding a toddler can feel like a professional sporting event. It’s one part endurance, one part strategy, and a whole lot of hoping that today isn’t the day they decide that the blueberries they loved yesterday are suddenly trash.

I learned this firsthand — like we all do — when my little cherub decided his pasta was “too red” (yeah, for real) and then catapulted his plate onto the floor. Our dog was thrilled. I was not. Between the flung food and the battle of “I do it myself,” mealtime felt like it was less about nourishing my tiny humans and more about survival.

But don’t you lose hope, because having the right gear can turn mealtime chaos into something a lot more manageable (and a lot less messy). Take OXO Tot for example: It’s an entire line of kid and baby products that were smartly designed by parents who’ve experienced the same mealtime struggles you have. Their woes gave way to brilliant non-slip plates, an unfussy puree maker, and more products that have been extensively tested to stand up to the toddler feeding era.

Whether you’re pureeing dinner on the fly, trying to thwart plate-launching, or just need a snack storage solution that won’t leak all up in your bag, these pro OXO Tot picks are total wins.

1. A Grape-Cutting Game Changer

Go ahead and quarter those grapes and grape tomatoes as requested, but without the slicing or panic-inducing choking hazard. This handy little tool has a non-slip plunger, finger rests that make it comfortable to use, and a snap-on cover that means it’s ready for travel or storage.

2. This Gadget That Turns Your Dinner Into Baby-Friendly Purees

Baby-approved puree? Check! Thanks to this easy-to-use food mill. It’s got a stainless steel blade and grinding plate to give the smooth-food texture your child needs, and its non-slip design keeps things steady in the making. (Pro tip: You can control the food thickness with added liquid.)

3. Bibs That Double As Crumb-Catchers

These are a bib deal. (Get it?) The wide, soft silicone pockets of these bibs will catch all of those stray bites, and an easy-to-clean fabric protects your little’s clothes. But the best part? These bibs roll up easily and neatly into their pocket, making them perfectly portable — and manageable — for meals out on the town.

4. The Ultimate Solution For Flying Plates

This suction plate sticks (incredibly) tightly to the table, so, ya know, no more airborne dinners. (You can’t see me, but I’m still grimacing from the pasta fiasco.) The curved sides help toddlers scoop food by themselves, and divided sections keep things organized.

5. Utensils That Help Your Toddler Serve Themselves

Designed with a flat spot on the handles to stop them from rolling in your toddler’s hands, these utensils are perfect for beginners. The fork is sharp enough for nuggets but safe for little mouths, and the deep spoon helps them scoop more mac and cheese — and wear less of it.

6. The Bowl That Stands Its Ground

Consider this the suction plate’s trusty sidekick. This bowl sticks down to stay put (because again, food should not fly). The curved sides help curious little hands figure out scooping, and when they’re done, it easily pops off — no wrestling match required.

7. Freeze With Ease, Then Heat & Serve

These little gems can go straight from the freezer to the oven or microwave — because let’s be real, who has time for extra dishes? (If you do, please teach me your ways!) Leakproof lids keep food fresh and diaper bags mess-free, and those stackable trays might just make your freezer a little less chaotic.

8. Spill-Proof Sipping Made Simple

Say goodbye to sippy cup spills! This cup’s straw only opens when your kiddo sips — no more surprise puddles. The flip-top lid keeps the straw clean (Who knows where tiny hands have been?), and it all comes apart easily for a deep, mom-approved scrub.

9. The One Training Cup That Grows With Them

Say hi to the cup designed to meet your growing kid’s needs. The 360-degree lid adjusts to three flow rates, and when they’re ready you can ditch the lid, and voilà: a regular ol’ cup! The non-slip grips and nose space mean fewer spills and more confident sips. Total win, trust me.

10. Smartly Designed Snack Storage

These sturdy silicone stand-up bags are perfect for snacks on the go and/or storing tiny must-haves like pacifiers. With a wide opening, flat bottom, and seamless design, they’re easy to fill, eat from, and clean in the dishwasher.

I know as well as anyone that some days, more food ends up on the floor than in your kid’s mouth. But with a little patience (and several deep breaths), I can safely say that mealtime doesn’t always have to feel like a battle. It’s not always easy, but you’re doing far better than you realize. And hey! Those giggles, crumbs, and (sometimes) content little faces? They’re proof that you’re getting it right.