Iced tea might be a Southern staple, but the cast of Bravo’s Southern Charm is serving theirs piping hot. The season 10 cast sat down with InStyle to answer fans’ burning questions and, in the process, revealed secrets, shared which of their cast mates they’d dated, and opened up about past relationships.

During InStyle‘s Fan Mail series, Leva Bonaparte, Austen Kroll, Madison LeCroy, Taylor Ann Green, Shep Rose, Venita Aspen, and Craig Conover responded to social media prompts, including one that read, “If you had to date another cast member who would it be “not including someone you’ve already dated/are dating?”

“I would date Whitney [Sudler-Smith],” Kroll joked. “Whitney and I would travel around, and Whitney could sleep around on me if he wanted to.” 

Green chose Bonaparte because “she’s safe.”

“She’s very motherly, she’ll take care of you,” she explained. “She’ll feed you. She’ll coddle you and read you stories at night.”

As for Bonaparte? “I guess maybe if I wasn’t married, since love is love these days, maybe I’d go after Naomi. Maybe I’d swim in a new pond. She’s hot!”

The cast’s resident style guru, Aspen, named Shep as the one she would date before hilariously changing her mind to Conover because her “mom would accept Craig” more. She also revealed that she doesn’t work with a stylist, so she curates all of her scene-stealing looks. “I try really hard not to buy things brand new too often. I’m like, ‘Okay, how can I just rework something versus buying something new?'”

Elsewhere in the video—which was filmed before Conover’s highly publicized split from ex-girlfriend and Summer House star Paige DeSorbo—the Sewing Down South founder revealed that the couple was “just trying to figure stuff out” at the time.

“Sometimes on TV you lose all of the connective tissue, and it’s been three years of work and understanding each other,” Conover said of his then-girlfriend. “We’re very different people, but we’re very supportive. And, she’s brought out a version of myself that I’ve always dreamed of being, so it’s been great.”

Conover read another prompt calling him the “hottest man on Bravo” before saying he didn’t want that title and credited DeSorbo for being his biggest competition in the hotness department. “That’s all new to me. I guess just take the compliment, Craig! Say ‘thank you,'” he teased. “I’m going to get brownie points and say Paige is my biggest competition for attractive person.”

“That puts the target on your back,” he added. “You do that, and then everyone’s like, ‘You’re not even that good looking,’ and you’re like,e ‘I didn’t say I was!’”

For more juicy quotes and behind-the-scenes drama, watch all of Southern Charm‘s InStyle Fan Mail video, here.